Michelle Duggar Says That Wives Must “Joyfully Be Available” For Sex With Their Husbands
Ah, so many Duggars, so much scandal available, so little time… Michelle Duggar’s latest advice to wives, ostensibly defending her child-molesting son Josh, now embroiled in a cheating scandal, is that wives need to “joyfully” offer sex to their husbands because their husbands “have needs,” even when wives are “big pregnant.” None of this comes as any real shocker from the woman who has “19 Kids and Counting” except that it comes on the heels of news that Josh cheated on his then very-pregnant wife, and according to Michelle’s posts, it was Josh’s wife’s fault that he cheated because the wife didn’t meet his needs.
The 19 Kids and Counting matriarch says to “be available, and not just available, but be joyfully available for him. Smile and be willing to say, ‘Yes, sweetie I am here for you,’ no matter what, even though you may be exhausted and big pregnant and you may not feel like he feels. ‘I’m still here for you and I’m going to meet that need because I know it’s a need for you.’”
Anna Duggar was “big and pregnant” when Josh Duggar cheated on her with two porn stars and who knows how many other women…
While it may be valid marital advice to say that couples need to meet each other’s needs, why does it always come down to men wanting sex and women having to “give” it to them? Why can’t marital relationships be more about human relations than deciding that men only want sex?
Strangely enough though, the Duggar Family acts as though they have only one child, Josh. When he was found to have molested his sisters, the Duggar parents talked about how happy they were that Josh “confessed.” When the news anchor corrected the couple stating that she was asking about their parenting relationship with their daughters, the Duggars again resorted to talking about how they were proud of Josh, and that from then on, they simply assumed that all men were sexual predators, not allowing young children to sit on laps. For the Duggars, it’s all about the male sexual impulse, lack of control with that, as though being a predator, pushing sexual limits, pushing your wife to have sex even if she doesn’t feel like it, are all normal parts of simply being male. While Michelle Duggar obviously enjoys not acknowledging her own sexuality, as if women even have a sexuality because in the Duggar world it’s just compliance, it certainly benefits no one to claim that the way to prevent sexual predatory behavior is just to give men what they want.
Aside from the extreme psychological disturbances shown time and time again in Michelle Duggar’s speech patterns, it’s more troubling that Michelle Duggar expects men to be predatory as condition of their human nature. Interestingly enough, the first link I found to the Duggar family when I checked online? Duggar Family, child sex abuse. Apparently the internet knows more about it than the Duggars.